Diamonds in the Dirt

the only lesson that i learned in love
 was a hard one and i took it and i
 misunderstood
 every time i stoke the fires the same
 but i know now that a sparks not
 always a flame
 you built your walls,
 you built them to last
 sealed and surrounded
 by a heart of glass
 maybe i was wrong
 to let you under my skin
 maybe i'm going down for a war
 that i never could win
 who's to say
 good love fades to dust
 who's to say
 all hearts learn to lust
 who's to say
 healing has to hurt
 who's to say
 that there's no diamonds in the dirt
 maybe we needed the end to begin
 maybe it's the same old story,
 sweeter spin
 a part of your heart is alone
 and it's set
 a part of your heart isn't over it yet
 who's to say
 oh who's to say
 who's to say
 that this won't go my way?