Horns

In there, there are just two ways:
 Roam and mutter/passivity
 Grab him, you grab him by the horns
 Take a shot to the ribs and let him trample on you
 Don't be enticed by the lights
 In a few short weeks its back to grinding
 Don't you go, well sure I know you want to
 Take those horns in the ribs
 But I,
 1.Wanted to live with the greatest of ease
 2.Wanted to live complete with friends
 3.Wanted to weave many magical spells
 4.Wanted to avoid the tedious things
 Still I am unconvinced
 Of an answer lurking here or there
 Newborn clone conflicts produce
 Teenage apathy choking my air-passageways
 Don't snuff out a smoldering wick
 You promised, you promised!
 Don't you go, well sure I know you want to
 Take those horns in the ribs
 Find the:
 1.Answer to confusion on a macro level
 2.Answer to discontentedness
 3.Way to reason with everyone else
 4.Way to avoid the unknown